If you’re reading this article, maybe you’ve suffered some emotional loss of somebody you love madly. Circumstances that led to the break up don’t matter now. Maybe something went wrong from your side or from her side. Whatever the reason was the point is that your relationship ended and now you are interested in getting your girlfriend back.
If you and your girlfriend have a long history with each other, there is at least some bonds between you two, and they don’t disappear just like that. In order to get your girlfriend back you need to find the ways how to maintain these bonds.
Let’s discuss on how to get your ex girlfriend back:
1. Just after the break up, don’t be in any kind of contact with her.
You have to minimize all connections with you ex girlfriend because you need to let your, and her, emotions to level off. You don’t want to look pathetic while begging her in emotional condition to take you back. Also, there is one psychology why this can help you to get her back:
People lust for things they cannot get!
This is important to remember. If you try to return into her life too soon, it only push her further away from you, and this is not what you want. So, you need to keep yourself busy for some weeks. This helps you to forget her until the time is ripe to approach her.
2. In order to get your ex back you need to get rid of any neediness.
Nobody is interested in a needy person. If you are unable to control your urge to be close with your ex-girlfriend, then you are only confirming their decision to break off with you. Conversely, if you will show her that you can live without her, she may start thinking if she did right by leaving you. You can really push everything to next level with this technique.
3. Make your ex girlfriend jealous.
You can accomplish this in many ways. Along with first two methods it can really turn tables on her. However, you’d need insurance for this particular technique because any “overdose” will blow off any chances of you getting back to her for ever.
4. Agree on a date with her while being “emotionally charged”.
Even though it may be hard to get your ex girlfriend on a date, it doesn’t have to be that hard. However, when asking her, don’t cause any pressure to her. Just to get her to go out with you, ask her to meet you as a friend.
But what I mean by being “emotionally charged”? First of all, don’t choose the traditional first dinner and then movies date. You need to appeal to her emotions and this type of dates are not going to do that. Choose some familiar and quiet place where you have had many nice and intimate moments. If your ex girlfriend gets emotional, you can start talking about the possibility of getting back with her again.
On the other hand, you can also make her remember how exciting and fun it was when you still were together. For example, take her to adventure, such as river rafting or rock-climbing. If she remembers what kind of adventure the life with you was, she may start considering of taking you back.