Are you scurrying around like a hurt puppy trying to figure out how to get your ex girlfriend or ex wife back? Are you looking for helpful advice from your friends, family and anywhere on the internet that you can in hopes of getting her back? Are you afraid that she is gone for good or that you’ll never be able to get her back? Well, knock it off!
Look! This stuff really isn’t all that complicated. You are only making it complicated by flipping out and being an annoying weenie to your friends, your family and, most importantly, to your girl. If you are upset all the time or wanting to talk with her about getting back together or if you’re contacting her every day or every couple of days because you miss her or you’re hoping that she’s going to change her mind then just knock it off.
Relax! You can get her back. Trust me! You are only making things worse by trying so hard. You are literally driving her away with your weak, needy and somewhat pathetic attempts to get her back. It is the cool dude that wins the girl. It will always be the guy that acts like he doesn’t care yet has a plan in mind that gets the girl in the end. Do you want to be that guy? Ok then! Let’s get started!
Being Cool to Get Her Back – Even if you are freaking out and you feel that your life is coming to an end because she dumped you, keep your cool. Don’t let her see you sweat and never let anyone see you cry. Live your life on the outside as if nothing bothers you and that your life is going on without her. If you see her, say “Hey…” and keep on walking.
Ignoring her, not contacting her and focusing on your life will give you some time for the dust to settle and things to return somewhat to normal in both of your lives. In addition, she might have second thoughts or even worry about losing you if you aren’t acting all crazy and standing on your head trying to get her back. Just think about it…
Being Happy To Get Her Back – You might feel as if your heart has been torn out and there are probably times when you would rather lose a limb than deal with losing your girl… the pain might actually be more manageable. But you really don’t have much of a choice right now so you need to keep on moving forward. Walking around looking all depressed just isn’t attractive and until you get yourself together you’re going to have to fake it for a while.
If you can’t seem to pull yourself out of this funk there are a few tricks that you can use. Go to a movie, preferably a comedy… or watch some comedies at home if you don’t want to go out. Eat some good food that you really enjoy. If it’s food that she didn’t let you eat, all the better. Do something that your ex was totally against and enjoy your freedom while you have it because soon it will be gone again. Hang out with some of your friends that you maybe haven’t seen in a while. Basically, what ever you have to do to put a smile on your face and get your heart pumping again should be on the menu.
If you think that all of this stuff is just for your own well being or just a bunch of happy, fuzzy, warm garbage, the truth is that what I have suggested above will work on your ex’s mind and bring out emotions in her that will begin to drive her back to you in a very subtle yet effective way… so don’t discount this stuff. This advice is only a sampling of what you need to do to mess with your ex’s mind and get her back.
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