When a woman is giving a guy mixed signals, it’s easy to get a little confused and even anxious. You don’t know whether or not she is sending you the right signals or the wrong ones. If these signals are coming from your ex girlfriend, it can make it all the more confusing. You don’t want to interpret things wrong and risk making the wrong move at the wrong time. Do that and you just might end up with no chance whatsoever of getting back together with her.
It’s hard enough really to try and deal with an ex girlfriend, let alone to try and win her back when you think she might be sending you mixed signals. Before you allow yourself to get all mixed up and make things worse by interpreting her signals the wrong way, there are some things that you need to know.
How can you determine what her signals really mean?
Well most of the time, it is guess work to some extent. After all, you’re not omniscient, you can’t really ever know what she is thinking all of the time. Anyone that has any relationship experience knows this. Just when you think you have a handle on what it is that she is thinking, she’ll go and say or do something that makes you realize that when it all comes down to it… you really don’t have much of a clue.
You can clue yourself in, though.
Here’s a little bit of advice on what you can do if you think your ex girlfriend is sending you mixed signals:
1) Give her a little test.
Usually the shoe is on the other foot when it comes to ‘tests’ between men and women. Meaning, usually it ends up being the woman who is testing the guy out. It does not have to be that way, though. You can throw your ex girlfriend a little test here and there. One easy way to do this is to test and see if she gets a little jealous at the thought of you dating someone else. Mention the possibility that you might be going out with another woman and see how she handles it. If it does not seem to phase her one bit, then she may not be sending you the signals that you think she is. If it does phase her, then she just might be sending mixed signals.
2) Don’t allow yourself to over think things too much.
One of the problems that guys have when it comes to their ex girlfriend is, if they want her back really badly, then it’s easy to get caught up in thinking about things too much. You start to think that any positive attention from her must be a signal that she wants you back. Well, that’s not the case all of the time. Sometimes, she just might be trying to be nice to you without it being a clear signal that she wants you back.
3) Learn how to read your ex girlfriend’s body language.
One thing that will help you out if you think your ex girlfriend is sending you mixed signals is to learn how to read a woman’s body language. She may be able to play it cool and say the right things to make it seem mysterious as to whether or not she wants you back, but her body language will almost always give her away. Problem is, most guys have no idea on what her body language really is telling them.