Because you are reading this article there is a good chance that you and your girlfriend have just broken up. If she dumped you because of something you did, you probably want to know how to get her back. However, it is important to remember that she is not a prize you are trying to chase. She is someone you love, and you surely don’t want to hurt her. So, take heed to some advice on how to get your ex back.
At first, you have to realize what were the main reasons that led to your break up. If the reasons are obvious this is rather easy step. If they are not you have to figure them out.
If the situation is still a little bit inflammable, and you don’t want to talk straight to your girlfriend, you can turn to her friends. She may have talked about your situation with her friends, and you are able to find some answers from them.
Now, let’s assume that whatever you did was not unforgivable, and hope is not totally lost. Next you have to face the situation and admit your wrong doings. Make no excuses for yourself.
If the time is right, approach your ex and discuss with her about the issue or issues in question. However, sometimes it is better to wait awhile and let her to cool off before approaching her.
One way to approach your ex is also through her close friend. You can ask her to tell your ex how sorry you are, and that you want to talk with her.
When you finally have a chance to talk with her in person, really listen what she has to say. Only after that it is your turn to talk. Be sincere, and don’t toss around a macho attitude.
Do not speak at her at your place or any area you frequented. A coffee shop is always nice, or a park perhaps. If you think the conversation may become heated then select someplace with some privacy where you both can let your emotions flow.
However, it is important that you keep it cool and don’t become defensive. Of course you also can show your emotions because it only shows that you still care about her. Just don’t start yelling and blaming at her about your break up.
The main point is to listen and understand the reasons that led to your break up. You need to make your girlfriend to believe that you know what you did, and that you are truly sorry about that.
So, here was some tips that should help you to get your ex girlfriend back without playing any head games. Remember that it is you who needs to correct things, not your ex.